![]() So I took down my formspring site and went about my day. But at this point, it kind of just weirded me out and didn’t think too much about it since it was likely a friend of mine just screwing with me. Anyways, I had one of those, and one day (Monday specifically), I started getting these creepy submissions saying stuff like, “I watch you going down ***** Street after school all the time.” and “You’re so beautiful, I want to rape you so badly.” Stuff like that. It’s just one of those anonymous question asking websites for those who don’t know. “I was in middle school (8th grade) when became popular. They were the worst years of my adult life.” - duillenua 5. In his job he had access to my tax records which meant every time I changed job, address or phone number, he had access to the most up-to-date information.īefore the court case began he committed suicide and I’m not ashamed to say I cried with relief. My ex was the main perpetrator, using his job to access all of my information. Then another year passed and as our encounters got worse (again, I’d rather not go in to detail), I decided to report him to the police again and this time they took some action.Īt this stage I couldn’t sleep, I couldn’t eat, I couldn’t concentrate at work, I was a shell.Ībout 2 months after I reported him to the police I woke up one morning to a story in the newspapers about staff in the national tax office using resources improperly. I ended up a paranoid wreck thinking that one of my friends had betrayed me or that my phone company had me listed in a phone book and all others kinds of crazy thoughts. I kept my phone number within my circle of friends but somehow he always managed to get my new number. I didn’t use social media and even insisted friends of mine not take any pictures of me in case they posted them on social media. I moved every 6-9 months and changed jobs twice but somehow he always managed to track me down. His behavior became increasingly worse (I’d rather not go in to detail) and the police were very reluctant to do anything. ![]() I couldn’t leave my job immediately but moving house didn’t make a difference anyway. Initially after the break up, his behavior seemed like the harmless actions of a bitter ex, constant texting and phone calls, sending gifts to my workplace, that sort of thing.Īfter about 6 months when this hadn’t died down, I started bumping into him on my way home from work or if I was out shopping so I ended up moving. The break up itself was so brutal, he cried and screamed and begged. This worried me a lot and I was really young (he was older than me) so I decided to get out. The reason I broke up with him is because I noticed him becoming increasingly possessive and controlling. “My first serious boyfriend stalked me for about 5 years after I broke up with him. Never have sex with crazy people.” - kolop1 4. Apparently, her mother told her I was no good because a man should never hit a women. It finally ended when she tried to attack me in a mall parking lot and I knocked her out defending myself. It had gotten so bad my mother called the police a few times and I tried to get a restraining order.Īnyway, after a year of this, I gave up, we got married and now have 2 kids. Then she scratched up my car and threatened to kill herself if we didn’t get back together. Then she had her mother call me and tell me we were supposed to get married, because we had sex. She started showing up at my house and just standing outside. So, after a few months of this, I broke up with her. She tried to ban me from hanging out with my friends and wanted me to spend all of my free time with her. Once we started having sex, she started getting very possessive. The police didn’t catch him until after the funeral.” - eyretothethrone 3. She had filed several police reports about him before that. ![]() “My aunt’s stalker waited outsider her office all day and then shot her in her car several times. ![]() I never responded but let his parents know what he was doing and never heard from him again.” - sluteva 2. Eventually he sent me an email threatening to kill my cat if I didn’t see him again. I didn’t feel safe doing so as when I broke up with him he threw me on the ground to prevent me from leaving the apartment while he held a knife to his neck threatening to kill himself. “After I broke up with my abusive ex, he kept trying to run into me or get me to meet up with him for “closure”. If you think your exes are crazy, wait until you hear these horror stories from Ask Reddit.
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